What is even more fascinating is the manner in which women view porn and how they view it. This is, other than the fact that a great many of them are performing it in front of the family or loved ones. When asked what type of porn women watch most frequently this again was the responses people got. Most of the responses varied greatly even between individuals who have same sex partners.
Just over a third of the women watching porn feel that it's alright while thirty percent would never recommend it to a partner. Only 7 percent of women said that they felt watching porn was degrading. What's even more interesting about this is that the other half felt that women should be able to choose how much they want to view orgasm porn based on their own decisions not a partner's.
Women watching porn in the real world also differs. Over a third of them said they don't view porn at all. The rest admitted that they do occasionally but only when they're alone and feeling bored. Women who feel their partners are always pressuring them to watch are very likely to admit that they have a problem with it and feel resentment when they can't watch as much as they'd like. Women who watch porn are just as likely to feel the same way towards their partners and feel that watching porn is degrading and demeaning to them.
But women in the bedroom aren't so quick to admit that they need a little porn. A lot of women hold the belief that they'll perform better in bed if they watch porn alone than engaging in a sexual encounter. The truth is that many times women view porn in order to boost their libido by giving themselves a sexual boost. Viewing porn when disconnected from their partner can lead to anxiety, lowered self-esteem, feelings of frustration and even feelings of infidelity. When porn becomes the only form of stimulation during sex women can feel an addiction.
The best thing a woman can do when she's having problems with her sex life is to talk about it with her partner. If a woman is having problems with her use of porn, she needs to ask her partner why he thinks it's a problem. If she does she has a way out of it, but often she's confronted with a resistance from her partner. She may feel that he doesn't want to watch it, doesn't want to be involved in watching it or that he thinks she's silly for thinking so. Often these conversations will result in him watching porn with her. This isn't a bad thing and it's great for improving your sex life, but if you both continue to fight it can lead to a serious imbalance in the amount of time you two are spending together.
One of the most common reasons women feel that they need to watch porn is that they're not getting a good enough sexual experience from their sexual encounters. The female brain is wired to respond to an erotic stimulus which causes it to fire an electrical impulse into the brain. This response causes the release of hormones like dopamine, which causes a woman to enter into a "sex mode" which means she's more aroused and sexually focused than she normally would be. Unfortunately this doesn't last long because the brain somehow interprets this as "spontaneous sex" and ignores it.
It's important that if you are a women watching porn, that you realize that you have every right to feel this way because your body is reacting to eroticism just as much as your man. Over two thirds of all women watch porn on the Internet and over thirty percent said that it causes them to feel sexually unsatisfied. Women also said that it's common for them to not be sexually satisfied with their partners. If you are one of those women thirty percent of the time, you may need to examine why your sex life is not as good as you want it to be.
If you want to change the way you view sex and satisfy your lover sexually, the first step is to eliminate porn from your home. The second step is to become an avid, willing reader of female porn. You will learn a whole new level of stimulation and pleasure that you've never experienced before. Female porn is designed with women in mind and provides all of the exotic and sensuous imagery that they are looking for. Give yourself the gift of an explosive sex life today by starting a library of your favorite books and starting an addiction that will change your love life forever.